Short answer: you’re exactly who this is built for.

If you’ve done therapy, coaching, courses, books, retreats… and still feel like you snap back to the same patterns? That doesn’t mean you didn't get it. It usually means the work you did was focused on tips, willpower, or mindset on top of the same old identity and programming.

Most programs help you understand yourself. This one is about helping you become the true version of yourself and actually live from there.

In Identity Shift, we:

• Go straight to the root programming (unworthiness, self-betrayal, over-responsibility) instead of just adding more “better habits” on top

• Give you real-time pattern interrupt tools you’ll actually use on a Tuesday afternoon when you’re spiralling or about to abandon yourself

• Walk you through a full journey:

  • Awakening (see and interrupt the old patterns)

  • Being (build a vision and identity that is actually yours)

  • Doing (habits & consistency that match that identity)

  • Having (learning to hold results without sabotaging them)

• Wrap it in a longer container so you’re not left alone trying to “hold it together” after a big weekend high

Also, I expect you to be a little skeptical. High-capacity women who have “done it all” usually are. You don’t have to pretend this is The Thing. You just have to be willing to show up, tell the truth, and actually use the tools.

If nothing else has “worked,” this is probably the first space that assumes you are not the problem... your old identity is. And that is exactly what we’re here to shift.

You’re not signing up for a second full-time job. This is built for real women with work, kids, partners, aging parents, businesses, and actual lives.

Over the 4 months, you’ll have:

• Our live immersive experiences (the 8-hour deep-dive days we do together)

• 60 minute regular calls for coaching, integration, and support

• Light-touch practices and reflections you weave into your real life, not hours of homework

Outside of the immersives and calls, most people spend about 1–2 hours a week engaging with the work, whether through journaling, simple practices, and applying tools to what’s already happening in their day.

The goal is not to keep you busy performing for the program.
The goal is to help you shift your identity while you live your actual life, so the changes you make are sustainable long after this container ends.

You are not being dropped into a portal and left alone with your patterns.

Inside Identity Shift, you’re held on multiple levels:

Live rooms where you’re met in real time
You’ll have live group calls and immersives where you can bring what’s actually happening in your life and get direct coaching and guidance that's not pre-recorded, or one-size-fits-all.

Hot-seat coaching on your real life
You’ll have chances to be coached directly on your patterns, decisions, relationships, money, leadership, health, whatever you need. The focus is always on practical shifts you can make right now.

An intimate room of women who get it
You’re surrounded by other high-capacity, “strong ones” who are also unwinding over-functioning and self-abandonment. You don’t have to translate your experience or tone yourself down to fit in.

Real-time reflection, not generic advice
You can bring real situations, questions, and wobbles and get clear, honest reflection and tools you can use the same day, not vague “just think positive” fluff.

You are not invisible here.
When you show up, you will be seen, and the work will meet you where you actually are, not where you think you’re “supposed” to be.

Totally normal. Most women who come into this space are used to being the strong one, the one who holds it all together, not the one who “falls apart” in front of other people. You are not the odd one out if your first reaction is, “I don’t know if I can open up like that.”

This is for you if you recognize yourself in things like:

• You’re used to being the one other people lean on, so it feels foreign (and a bit unsafe) to let someone else see behind your armour.

• You’ve been burned before sharing too much with the wrong people, so now you keep most of your inner world to yourself.

• You like to process things alone first, and the idea of speaking before it’s perfectly packaged makes you want to disappear.

• You worry you’ll take up “too much space,” be “too dramatic,” or cry and not be able to pull it together again.

• You’re afraid you’ll be the only one struggling with what you’re struggling with, or that your stuff is “not bad enough” to belong.

You do not have to arrive as an open book to be here. In fact, a lot of women start out quiet, watchful, and careful. That’s okay. You’ll be given options like reflective exercises, smaller breakout spaces, hot-seat coaching you can volunteer for when you’re ready, so your pace and your nervous system are respected.

If there’s a part of you that longs to be fully seen, and another part that’s terrified of that… this room is designed for exactly that tension. You get to bring both. And you’ll quickly realize you are not the only one who feels this way.

The next round of Identity Shift runs from February 6 to May 28, 2026.

Our live 3-Day Awakening immersion is February 6 • 7 • 8, 2026, and then we move into four months of integration, coaching, and identity recalibration together.

If you’re wrestling with this, it’s not because you don’t know what you want.
It’s because you do know… and you don’t fully trust yourself to choose it yet.

Here’s what’s actually happening under the question:

• Part of you wants a full reset and a season where you finally follow through.

• Part of you is scared you’ll overcommit, disappear on yourself, or bite off more than you can emotionally or financially chew.

• Part of you hopes “just The Awakening” will secretly be enough so you don’t have to risk more.

Let’s talk to all of it.

What The Awakening gives you (on its own)

The Awakening is not a teaser. On its own, it will absolutely shift you.

In those 3 days, you will:

• See exactly why you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships, money, and your own head

• Get tools to interrupt your spirals in real time

• Catch the moments you abandon yourself the second someone else has an opinion

• Walk out feeling like a different woman on the inside, not just hyped up for a weekend

If all you truly have capacity for right now (time, money, nervous system) is a powerful reset and deep clarity, then The Awakening alone is a beautiful, complete choice.

You’ll also have a 30-day window after it ends to roll into Identity Shift for that round if you decide you want more.

What Identity Shift adds (on top of The Awakening)

Identity Shift is for when you’re not only ready to see your patterns, but to actually live differently over time.

When you commit to the full 4-month experience from the start, you’re saying:

“I’m not leaving this in the ‘that was a powerful weekend’ folder.
I’m going to change how I’m being, what I do, and what I have.”

You get:

• The Awakening - your deep reset and pattern interrupt

• BEING - two days to clarify your vision and who you’re here to be, beyond everyone’s expectations

• DOING - two days to build habits and consistency that match that identity, and catch your self-sabotage in real time

• HAVING - two days to hold and normalize new results (money, love, health, career...) without freaking out or blowing them up

• Plus ongoing support between immersives, so you’re not doing it alone in your own head

It’s the difference between:

• “I finally understand what’s been running me,” and

• “I am now someone who actually does what she says, goes after what she wants, and holds it.”

So… how do you know which is right for you?

Ask yourself a few honest questions:

• When I imagine saying yes to Identity Shift, do I feel relief + fear, or tightness + dread?

• Am I saying “just The Awakening” from self-respect… or from avoiding commitment because I’m scared I’ll let myself down?

• If I only do The Awakening, will I actually give myself structure and support afterwards? Or do I know my pattern is to drift back into “I’ll figure it out on my own”?

Here’s the clean guidance:

• If your body says:
  “I know I need the reset first, and then I’ll know my next step” → Start with The Awakening. Trust that, and use your 30-day window after to decide about Identity Shift.

• If your body says:
  “I am done with almost-changing. I want the reset AND the support to live differently for a whole season” → Choose Identity Shift now and let The Awakening be your starting portal inside it.

Neither choice is wrong.

The real work is telling yourself the truth about why you’re choosing it, and not using “later” as a dressed-up way to stay exactly where you are.

The goal of this container is not to make you dependent on me.
The goal is that by the end of 4 months, you trust you.

Over our time together, you’ll build and practice your Identity Shift toolkit in real life, not just in a workbook. By the time we wrap, you won’t be “starting over,” you’ll be continuing a process you already know how to run.

By the end of the 4 months, you’ll leave with things like:

• A clear identity + vision you’re grounded in (who you are now and where you’re going)

• Your personal pattern-interrupt tools for when you start to spiral or self-sabotage

• Simple daily / weekly practices that keep you aligned with your future self

• A way to track your habits and results so you can see your progress

• Language and boundaries that make it a lot harder to abandon yourself 

You don’t get cut loose with a “good luck, hope it sticks.”

We close the container by making sure you know exactly how to keep walking this out without burning out, backsliding, or needing another program to rescue you.

And if, at that point, you want deeper or ongoing support, we’ll talk through your options so your next step feels intentional - not taken from fear or FOMO.